Sex
education? Parents have mini heart attack at the sound of those two words. I
mean what parent wouldn’t right? Sex isn’t something that you imagine your kids
doing anytime soon!! If you aren’t ready for them to be having sex why should
they even be educated on what sex is? Parents are fighting schools in Texas so
that they don’t teach the students what safe sex is. They claim that the kids
are too young to be learning about what any of that is and I completely get it
these kids are young and shouldn’t be thinking about sex but lets be realistic
here for a second okay? Lets look at in what generation we are now living in!
Kids don’t have to be educated properly in school to know what sex is right?
Sex is shown in movies, TV shows, video games and more. How can someone really
expect his or her kids to not know anything about sex?
In my opinion sex education should
be a requirement in schools. Regardless what the parents have to
say.
Sex
education is something that isn’t taken serious enough in Texas. Nation wide
teen pregnancies have declined but sadly in Texas and Travis County numbers remain not only the same but there times higher then the national average. What does that tells us? It tells
us that we aren’t doing a good job at informing our kids on what “safe sex” is
and we cant inform them about safe sex because we don’t let the schools inform
our kids about sex in general! Being a teen mom has to be one of the hardest
things anyone has to do. More then 70 percent of teen moms are single moms and
have to drop out of high school to financially support herself and her son or
daughter. Only about 38 percent of teen moms will get their high school diploma
by the age of 22 as sated in the article “UT studyfinds Texas teen pregnancies lag behind U.S. improvement” Not being properly
educated about sex and safe sex can cause a lot of harm in someone’s life. And
who are we to take that away from someone. Being properly informed about the
consequences of having unprotected sex can make someone think twice about the
decision they are about to make.
Schools are teaching students to become “abstinent” what does
that mean? It means it is a choice to not participate in any genital
contact. And that’s all schools are teaching. How is telling someone to be
abstinent going to help at all? Teens have a higher probability in getting peer
pressured into doing something and how can they make they correct choice if
they aren’t correctly informed?
Sex isn’t all fun and games like its shown on TV, and movies.
The movies forget to show what happens when you have unprotected sex with
someone you don’t know their medical history. Having unprotected sex can cause
serious health issues. It can give someone something as simple as Genital warts
that can be taken care to getting HIV. A virus that there is no cure for and
that sounds so scary but teens don’t know? They don’t know because they aren’t
informed. If they would get more education about what sex is and what it the
consequences are if you have unprotected sex things here in Texas would change
dramatically. They rate in teen pregnancy would drop, teens would be informed
more about the options they have instead of feeling like they are being forced
to become abstinent and finally it would reduce spreading STD’s.
In conclusion, sex education will only help the youth grow and
become more responsible. Learning more will only better kids, and even the
parents. It would build more trust in between them and instead of having no trust;
kids can finally come to their parents for help. The motive that I have for
schools to educate kids about sex is because parents fail to do so and not
because they are bad parents but because it awkward to talk to your kids about
sex. But in the other hand schools have professional who specialize on talking
about sex with teens and can educate them better.